Arguments. Are they helpful, or just adding fuel to a roaring fire? Do they actually solve anything? I believe not. I think there's a lot more to life than confrontation. I can't explain it properly. But to me it feels like the end result of any dispute is anger. Whether the participants of the argument are forgiven or not, we're still left with that little spark of irritability. Which I don't believe goes anywhere, ever. Lying within us is a little charge of energy caused by the conflict. Picture it how you may: I see a pyramid of emotions built up slowly over time. These can be any emotions. One by one, as events in our lives occur, a tiny piece of our current mental state is added to the pile. But anger, this is a dangerous addition to the pyramid's natural, harmonious nature. Anger, hatred, and aggression are all particles vibrating with an ominous kind of energy, and when added to the build-up of our emotion, they will react with unstoppable force and have an effect difficult to repair. The anger will forever leave a little indentation within our memory. It may be covered up, smoothed over - apologies and resolutions may be offered - but it is still there. And will forever be.
Just a little something to think about.
